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		<title>By: Editors we love to hate &#171; WordCount &#8211; Freelancing in the Digital Age</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1218</link>
		<dc:creator>Editors we love to hate &#171; WordCount &#8211; Freelancing in the Digital Age</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 17:57:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] this year, Colorado writer Dan Baum used Twitter to write about his love-hate relationship with The New Yorker and Editor David Remnick, though in all honesty, that seemed to be more of a [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Freelancedom &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Link Love: May 29</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1217</link>
		<dc:creator>Freelancedom &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Link Love: May 29</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 17:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] WordCount&#8217;s Sometimes They&#8217;re Just Not That Into You [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Michelle Rafter</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-/#comment-1216</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Rafter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 18:48:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have no idea about a The New Yorker confidentiality clause, but apparently Dam Baum felt comfortable enough about the details of his situation to share with the universe. I can only speak for myself, I would love to hear what it was like to work for Dear Abby - if you ever decide to spill the beans, send me the link and I&#039;ll post it here.

Michelle R.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no idea about a The New Yorker confidentiality clause, but apparently Dam Baum felt comfortable enough about the details of his situation to share with the universe. I can only speak for myself, I would love to hear what it was like to work for Dear Abby &#8211; if you ever decide to spill the beans, send me the link and I&#8217;ll post it here.</p>
<p>Michelle R.</p>
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		<title>By: Sister Wolf</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1215</link>
		<dc:creator>Sister Wolf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 05:41:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just finished reading Mr. Baum&#039;s account of his job at the New Yorker, which led me here.

I&#039;ve been fired from nearly every job I ever had by failing to try to understand the office culture. It has been a chronic and predictable mistake that is obviously part of my screwed-up psyche.

Once in a while, I think about writing about my experience as an assistant (ghost writer) for Dear Abby. But the confidentiality clause is a worry.

Do you think the New Yorker had such a clause for its staff?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just finished reading Mr. Baum&#8217;s account of his job at the New Yorker, which led me here.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been fired from nearly every job I ever had by failing to try to understand the office culture. It has been a chronic and predictable mistake that is obviously part of my screwed-up psyche.</p>
<p>Once in a while, I think about writing about my experience as an assistant (ghost writer) for Dear Abby. But the confidentiality clause is a worry.</p>
<p>Do you think the New Yorker had such a clause for its staff?</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle Rafter</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-/#comment-1214</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Rafter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 18:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the explanation, sounds interesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the explanation, sounds interesting.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Tom Bibey</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1213</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Tom Bibey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 18:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is correct.  I am working on a novel, &#039;The Mandolin Case&#039; due out in 2010.  In the story, the medical truths are found via music and the arts more than by science.

I don&#039;t expect it will wind up on the New York best seller list, but I think it will do O.K. with my people.

Dr. B</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is correct.  I am working on a novel, &#8216;The Mandolin Case&#8217; due out in 2010.  In the story, the medical truths are found via music and the arts more than by science.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t expect it will wind up on the New York best seller list, but I think it will do O.K. with my people.</p>
<p>Dr. B</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle Rafter</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-/#comment-1212</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Rafter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 15:36:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It must be easier to be philosophical when your career&#039;s not on the line, thanks for the perspective. And I have to ask: what&#039;s physician bluegrass fiction - books about doctors who play bluegrass music?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It must be easier to be philosophical when your career&#8217;s not on the line, thanks for the perspective. And I have to ask: what&#8217;s physician bluegrass fiction &#8211; books about doctors who play bluegrass music?</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Tom Bibey</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1211</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Tom Bibey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 15:26:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve had some published and some rejected.  With rejections I try to learn from each one, and understand why it was rejected.  Often it was because I had directed the piece to the wrong audience.

I write physican bluegrass fiction.  It is a narrow genre, so not everyone wants to read my work.  That does not concern me.  I am more interested in the tens of thousands who read my blog than the millions who don&#039;t.

However, I do not make my living as a writer, so it is easy to be philosophical about it all.

drtombibey.wordpress.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had some published and some rejected.  With rejections I try to learn from each one, and understand why it was rejected.  Often it was because I had directed the piece to the wrong audience.</p>
<p>I write physican bluegrass fiction.  It is a narrow genre, so not everyone wants to read my work.  That does not concern me.  I am more interested in the tens of thousands who read my blog than the millions who don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>However, I do not make my living as a writer, so it is easy to be philosophical about it all.</p>
<p>drtombibey.wordpress.com</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle Rafter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle Rafter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 21:12:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s a good, and probably healthy - way to look at rejection - as part of the work we do. You could also argue that if you&#039;re not getting rejected you&#039;re not testing the limits of the work you&#039;re doing. If you constantly push past what you&#039;ve done in the past to pursue different publications or genres you could eventually transform your entire writing business.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a good, and probably healthy &#8211; way to look at rejection &#8211; as part of the work we do. You could also argue that if you&#8217;re not getting rejected you&#8217;re not testing the limits of the work you&#8217;re doing. If you constantly push past what you&#8217;ve done in the past to pursue different publications or genres you could eventually transform your entire writing business.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah E. Ludwig</title>
		<link>http://michellerafter.com/2009/05/13/sometimes-theyre-just-not-into-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1208</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah E. Ludwig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 21:06:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rejection definitely stinks, but I was surprised when I started freelancing to find that rejections don&#039;t bother me that much. Considering how much they do bother me in my personal life, it was quite a revelation to me.

The reason? If I&#039;m getting rejections, in turn I&#039;m reminded that I&#039;m also getting my work out there and giving myself more chances for it to be accepted. It&#039;s like receiving a receipt for the hard hours I&#039;ve put in. It&#039;s proof that I&#039;m active and vital.

Great post!

http://ParentingByTrialandError.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rejection definitely stinks, but I was surprised when I started freelancing to find that rejections don&#8217;t bother me that much. Considering how much they do bother me in my personal life, it was quite a revelation to me.</p>
<p>The reason? If I&#8217;m getting rejections, in turn I&#8217;m reminded that I&#8217;m also getting my work out there and giving myself more chances for it to be accepted. It&#8217;s like receiving a receipt for the hard hours I&#8217;ve put in. It&#8217;s proof that I&#8217;m active and vital.</p>
<p>Great post!</p>
<p><a href="http://ParentingByTrialandError.com" rel="nofollow">http://ParentingByTrialandError.com</a></p>
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