20 responses to “Sex sells, and other blogging lessons learned”

  1. Chris Moran

    Nice writing style. Looking forward to reading more from you.

    Chris Moran

  2. aprilx

    I love this post and your style, as Chris mentioned above. I’ll be seeing you in my RSS feed!

    (I have no tips to share as I’m very new at blogging and only do it for fun.)

  3. Charmian Christie

    You’ve done a great summary. The only thing I’d add is the old “Content is King”. Good writing, as the above commenters have noted, wins loyal readers better than hot keywords.

  4. John Mancini

    Michelle…good post and very true. I’ve been a bit of a laggard over the holidays, but of the posts that I’ve done, the ones that have connected have been the ones connecting back to previous posts under some sort of “best of” framework. As a really bad headline writer, your comments are on target. I don’t know if I could get away with the picture, though. (Although did make me look)

  5. Jennifer Margulis

    This is a great post. Thanks for all the good advice. I’d better put it to work now. I wanted to write a post about what men don’t know about their penises for my baby bonding blog for dads (http://babybondingbookfordads.blogspot.com/). Not sure if that counts as sex but maybe?

  6. Melissa Sais

    I discovered your blog today through LinkedIn’s Freelance Succes group. I’m new to LinkedIn, ramping up my existing freelancing business and looking into whether starting a blog is worthwhile. It looks like you have some great insight. I look forward to reading more from you. Thanks!

  7. Christi

    Thanks for a great post – good for seasoned writers, too – your forget to clean house, Ping, write for engines, write for readers, etc. It’s good to get back to basics. In the shelter category bedroom (and kitchen) seem to be the big hitters.

  8. Carroll Lachnit

    Sex DOES sell in blogs, Michelle. Whether anyone wants to buy is another question. For example, I offer a recent Brazen Careerist blog: http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/01/06/high-income-women-get-more-oral-sex-maybe/

  9. Kerry Dexter

    Michelle,
    I’d add, remember that you have (or perhaps want to build) an international audience. thinking about that is a good source of ideas, both for topics and ways to connect. consistently, half of my readers come from outside the US.

  10. Michelle Rafter

    Carroll: P.T. often weaves sex into her blog posts – I stopped being surprised when I started suspecting it was an SEO tactic.

    Kerry: Good point, I definitely need to pay more attention to international readers.

    Michelle R.

  11. Julie Sturgeon

    I’ve learned that it still requires the basics of writing: good grammar, storytelling suspense, and a message. Some of the blogs I’ve read out there are deadly dull, too narrow in focus and such an illiterate mess I can’t follow them.

  12. Joy Manning

    Helpful tips and info, Michelle. Thanks for writing this. I’ve been blogging for a month and before I started I thought there was nothing to it. But there’s so much to learn.

    Thanks again!

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  18. Michelle Rafter

    Thanks Chris and April. If you’re still new to blogging, keep plugging away at it. It gets easier as you go. Don’t feel like you have to learn everything all at once. Slow & steady gets you there too.

  19. Michelle Rafter

    Hmmm Jennifer, that’s a tricky one – it’s scintillating material but you don’t want your post to get caught up on spam filters because of anything you use either! May innuendo is the way to go.

    Michelle

  20. Michelle Rafter

    Thanks Melissa, and welcome to WordCount. If you do a search on “blogs” or “blogging” you’ll see a lot of older posts that would be good for beginners. Actually I’d already thought about doing a “Blogging 101″ post early this year for new bloggers who might have wandered onto this space, so maybe I’ll rev up those plans and do something next week. Stay tuned.

    Michelle

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